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So much hate and negativity has driven many away from Buzznet, including me. I am so sensitive to it that it was making me so physically ill I had to have a break. There are people here I dont like, just like everywhere else, but I have stayed and been quiet and I think that is the thing to do. Fighting doesnt do anything but drain you of your energy.

The internet is a scary place! Stalkers and mean hateful people have caused me to have to make my profile private, and it just shouldn't be that way. Also, we shouldnt feel pressured to comment every post or be on every day. Buzznet is for our enjoyment, it is not a popularity contest nor is it high school. Comment on the good stuff out there, ignore the rest. Write in all lowercase, all caps, lolcatz speak, or whatever makes you happy. Get on when you feel like it, when you have time, when you are having fun with it, and when you can't then don't worry about it. Don't judge others, don't play games, be honest, be kind, and most of all just be yourself and have fun.

Maybe I cant change the world, but I can change my life, and maybe - just maybe I can change Buzznet. It is a start, right?!?!! Let's all make Buzznet a fun and positive place to be for everyone.

So try this kiddies, no negativity, only positive stuff...

Like Thumper's mom told him in "Bambi" the Disney movie, "If you cant say anything nice, don't say anything at all!"

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	Chloe Thunders: 02/07/2008 3:40 PM Oh can we really speak in lolcatz? I iz happeh then...
	Shazzi: 02/07/2008 3:44 PM Zomg, +10 points for the Bambi reference.
	Harold Bensington: 02/07/2008 4:03 PM You are the best, I hope you know. ♥ I've actually been considering deleted my account because of all of this negativity, in all honesty. I couldn't dare do it because I KNOW that there is good in people, so I just have to try harder to bring it out of people. Great post.
	Jai: 02/07/2008 4:17 PM :) You're refreshing for saying to write how you want. Because lately I'VE BEEN ON AN ALLCAPS KICK! butt plz nu lolkatz! iz gettin hedake jes tinkin abowt it!
	breesays: 02/07/2008 4:30 PM You are my sunshine, my only sunshine... :)
	Ikky-ikky-arriba!: 02/07/2008 7:07 PM I luv ya stalkypoo
	Blair Waldorf: 02/07/2008 7:17 PM :) Follow mykindanormal's advice! I still feel bad from all the negativity. I am now going to drink my energy drinks and live life my way. Which is free of drama.
	Legion of Doom: 02/07/2008 7:45 PM :) Great journal. I agree with you!
	boz48730: 02/07/2008 10:37 PM I've never really flet the negativity vibe that so many people have commented about, but maybe that's because I stay away from the front page and the forums and just stick to the photo pages.
	kassady: 02/08/2008 1:58 AM hurrah!
	farmlife: 02/08/2008 6:45 AM Mean people lead unhappy small lives, I try to ignore the mean people, but sometimes it's hard. I am glad you didn't quit, I did that a couple of times due to mean people, and deleted all my photos, now I feel that just played into their hand, so now I am back, farmlife year 4! : )
	∞ xєřǿ ∞: 02/08/2008 7:25 AM glad you're still here
	Jennifer: 02/08/2008 8:02 AM I agree.....sadly sometimes this place FEELS like highschool with the "cliques" and the rumors and having people talk behind your back. Kinda sucks that this place is supposed to be an escape and it turned into some weird prison. But, I completely agree with you. A little while ago I kept having this person come in my notes. She would pop up to call me fat and other things....almost became a game to her.....I would forget about it then there would be another one. But I keep my page public becasue I want to....anyway, great post and glad you stayed!
	nimifilth: 02/08/2008 7:58 PM theres too much hate in this world lets all make up then make out!
	sweetgee: 02/10/2008 9:02 PM I hear ya, girl :) I say, put your energy into the good & positive shtuff... whatever makes you feel good, whatever makes you smile. the key is, do it for y-o-u! honestly. it's not selfish. it's actually selfless! cuz in the end, you will shine and that will bubble over on to the rest of us! yay! I think you're awesome... yeah, you know it. lotsa love, sweetie!!! :)

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